Frances lived a full and active life. She
was warm and gentle with a quiet nature who touched many lives and who
cherished deep and long-lasting friendships. She was a selfless and dedicated
mother, always putting the needs of others before her own. Frances exhibited quiet
confidence and had great inner strength and courage. She had a great sense of
humour (she was always quick to laugh), loved the outdoors, and had an admirable
level of fitness.
Born in Birmingham England, the youngest
child of Ronald and Win Moffatt, she is survived by her mother Win and her
elder sister Patricia.
Frances met Keith, her husband and best
friend for over 43 years, at Great Barr Comprehensive School and they became
childhood sweethearts. They married in 1972. After a short honeymoon in the
Lake District, they started married life in London where Frances worked as a
laboratory technician at Imperial College London.
They moved to Canada in 1973 and, unable to
find work as a lab tech, she took courses in typing and shorthand and became an
executive secretary. They only intended to spend a year in Canada before moving
on to see the world, however they both fell in love with Canada and decided to
stay.
When Frances started her family, she chose
to stay at home and invest her time raising her children. She is survived by
three children, Claire Frances (33), Adrienne Elaine (31) and Ian William (29).
Adrienne married Craig Madill in 2011 and presented Frances with her first
grandson, Charlie Woodrow Madill (13 months). Ian married Sarah Woolgar in
2013.
When the children started school, Frances
filled her free time writing and composing poetry; both passions of hers. Over
the years Frances received much recognition for her writing, including the Marg
Gilkes Award in 1995 by the Calgary Writers Association.
In part because she was not keen on history
at school, she felt there was a need to present history in an easy-to-read
format written for young adults. She wrote and had published three books in
this genre;
Frances, Hern. Norman Bethune: The Incredible
Life and Tragic Death of a Revered Canadian Doctor. Canmore: Altitude
Publishing, 2004.
Frances, Hern. Arctic Explorers: In Search of the Northwest Passage. Surrey: Heritage House Publishing Company Ltd.,
2010.
Frances, Hern. Yip Sang and the First Chinese Canadians. Surrey: Heritage House
Publishing Company Ltd., 2011.
She had two essays published in Engraved, an anthology of Canadian
Stories of World War One (2014). Throughout the years numerous poems of
Frances' have been published in various works. She also has a young adult book
awaiting publication.
Frances was keen on sport, playing field
hockey, basketball, tennis, squash and badminton. She seized any opportunity to
feel the warmth of the sun on her face. Summer weekends would find her hiking
in Banff, Jasper, and Yoho national parks or canoeing the rivers of Alberta and
British Columbia. Frances had a love for gardening, reflecting her desire to
nurture.
Before kids she took several trips to many
European ski resorts. When the children were young Jackson Hole was the ski
resort of choice, where she was the first female to be awarded the Million
Vertical Feet belt buckle. As the children grew she became an active parent volunteer
in the Lake Louise Ski Club.
In the last 10 years of her life Frances
called Golden home and enjoyed skiing at Kicking Horse Mountain Resort and
cross-country skiing and snowshoeing on Dawn Mountain.
Frances enjoyed many family sailing
holidays. She sailed extensively on the west coast of Canada with longer trips
to the Caribbean islands, along the Dalmatian Coast of Croatia, in Turkey, and
in the Greek Islands.
Frances visited many places including Egypt,
Ecuador, the Galapagos, Machu Picchu, New Zealand, Australia, Russia,
Lithuania, Estonia, Latvia, Poland, Germany, Italy, Spain, France, Romania,
Bulgaria, the Czech Republic, and in 2014 she traveled through Kenya, Tanzania,
and Zimbabwe on Safari. Frances and Keith shared a thirst for adventure and
love of cultures, people, and the history behind them. On her travels Frances
sought out local museums, art galleries, historical sites, and a good cup of
tea. She was always ready with a pad and pen, taking notes, names and dates,
perhaps seeking inspiration for her next story.
Frances was diagnosed with breast cancer in
2007 and was required to undergo a mastectomy. Breast cancer returned with a
vengeance in 2012 necessitating a second mastectomy, chemotherapy, and
radiation treatments. Devastatingly, despite treatment the cancer metastasized
to her lungs, liver, and bones.
Her cheerful and positive attitude belied
her condition. In January, Frances skied on sunny days just one or two runs
before returning home for her après-ski bath and ritual cup of tea. At the end
of the ski season, she went on a tour of China and Southeast Asia, her last
trip.
Wife, mother, daughter, grandmother,
sister, aunt, friend, poet, and author, Frances will be sorely missed by many. In
living memory of Frances Hern, a tree will be planted at Fish Creek Provincial
Park in September 2016.
Thoughts
on Luck
Frances
Hern – December 19,2013
Perhaps it's portioned out at birth,
this much for you, less for you.
Perhaps I've squandered my share
on small things,
a glutton for serendipity,
rather than hoarding it for when
I really need it. But then
if I had hoarded,
denying small pleasures, successes,
so I could use it when all the odds
are playing against me,
I might not care so much about
what is happening now.
Celebration of Life
The family would like to invite her friends
to a celebration of Frances’ life on Saturday, October 10th 2015
between 2 and 6 pm at The Island Restaurant, Golden, British Columbia.
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